Todd Zemek speaks the truth about relationships.
With three decades of experience as a clinical psychologist and relationships educator, he helps individuals and organizations learn how to collaborate and love more successfully.
Balancing authenticity with the desire to be loved is a constant challenge. It becomes even harder as both life and others keep shifting their expectations for meaningful connection.
Todd helps audiences uncover why relationships often fail and what shifts when you become more grounded and self-aware. His approach takes us from past limitations to new possibilities in the most practical way.
Todd can adapt his presentation for your event. Example topics include…
Have you ever been frustrated by others’ actions, feeling like they lack common sense? Their behavior might seem illogical, inappropriate, or disrespectful, causing tension, misunderstandings, and sometimes even the breakdown of relationships.
In a world focused on outcomes, we often ask, “What should I do?” But the key to resolving these challenges often lies in understanding who we’re dealing with. Many common strategies fall short because they ignore the deeper dynamics at play in our interactions.
Take-home insights and actionable steps include:
✅ Learn how to shift from “What Thinking” to “Who Thinking” to deepen your understanding of others.
✅ Discover the four most common personality patterns and how to recognize them from the inside out.
✅ Understand how to connect with each personality’s strongest motivations and soothe their deepest fears.
✅ Cultivate wisdom and relational mindfulness to navigate difficult interactions with ease.
✅ Enhance your emotional intelligence to adapt and strengthen your connections with the key people in your life.
Have you ever felt like you have to choose between being true to yourself and being truly loved? In the face of hard conversations, many people silence their needs or push too hard—fearing that honesty will lead to conflict or disconnection.
But real intimacy, whether at home or at work, doesn’t come from avoiding discomfort. It comes from learning how to speak your truth and stay connected—standing your ground while standing with each other. Differentiation is the foundation of a strong team, a strong partnership, and a strong self.
Take-home insights and actionable steps include:
✅ Understand how to stay grounded in your values—even when emotions run high.
✅ Learn to express your truth without controlling or disconnecting from others.
✅ Shift from power struggles to partnership by embracing both individuality and unity.
✅ Recognize when you’re abandoning yourself to keep the peace—and how to stop.
✅ Create connection through courage: learn the language of love, strength, and mutual respect.
In a society that still treats menopause like a medical footnote or a private burden, women are left to quietly cope. But this talk breaks the silence—and offers a bridge back to understanding, intimacy, and connection.
With compassion, humor, and clinical insight, this session explores the gendered experience of menopause—how men and women often interpret it differently, and how those gaps can either divide or invite deeper understanding.
Take-home insights and heartfelt tools include:
✅ Why menopause impacts not just your hormones, but your identity—and how that plays out in relationships.
✅ How gendered misunderstandings fuel conflict—and what to do when your partner “just doesn’t get it.”
✅ Language that helps you express your needs with clarity and emotional honesty.
✅ Simple practices to reconnect—physically, emotionally, and relationally—during a time that often pushes people apart.
✅ A powerful reframe: how menopause can deepen emotional intimacy, rather than diminish it.
This presentation is perfect for couples, wellness events, mental health professionals, HR and leadership teams, or anyone ready to better understand the relational impact of menopause—and the opportunity it holds to come together in new, meaningful ways.
