Are you struggling with…
- Repetitive interactions?
- A lack of dating confidence?
- Not feeling ready?
- Not knowing where to start?
- Afraid there is no one ‘good’ out there?
- Feeling too old?
- Being too attached to an ex to move forward?
- Afraid of getting hurt?
The most common struggle with dating is the myth that magic should just happen.
However, the more mature you become the more selective you need to be. This requires a whole new dating skill set.
This is why Todd’s created the Dating On Your Terms Method course.
The purpose is to engage you with dating as an experience for you. Then connection with others becomes
a pleasure and you attract people who make you feel like a more relaxed and expansive version of yourself.
HOW IT WORKS...
Dating is a social skill that can be learnt and improved. Understanding specific skills helps you feel prepared before you even speak to anyone.
Using your new skills, you will see competence develop at each stage of the dating progress. Confidence grows as your experience proves you are capable.
You start to see lifetime first experiences that become easier than you could have imagined. You let go of old beliefs and enjoy what is possible!
BUILDING A NEW RELATIONSHIP
CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO FEEL READY FOR DATING?
+ Your dating confidence, skills and competence
+ Learning about yourself and relationships through dating – dating is relating.
+ Loving inner children
+ Gender differences
BUILDING A NEW RELATIONSHIP
+ Neglected parts
+ Heart-based knowing
+ The King and the Queen of dating – meeting in the middle
+ Your non-negotiables
+ Saying goodbye to the friendzone
+ How to maximise the benefits of your dating support team
YOUR RELATIONSHIP’S PROTECTION LOOPS
+ The many benefits of online dating
+ Niche your profile
+ Screening to save you time
TERRY REAL’S RELATIONSHIP GRID
+ Your social circle
+ Being social
+ The gift of your smile
+ Playful and warm v’s sleazy and desperate
UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIP STYLES & NEEDS
+ The purpose of your first date
+ How long?
+ What to where?
+ To touch or not to touch?
THE SIX LOVE LANGUAGES
+ Dating dynamics – the ingredients of chemistry
+ Dating disasters
+ Exploring gender differences
+ Stories of closeness
+ Stories of delight
+ The playful behind the scenes disclosure
DATING RED FLAGS
+ Boundaries and balance – the need for protection and openness
+ Not feeling like more of your natural self in their company
+ A lack of emotional intelligence
+ The hopeless romantic
+ The selfless slave
+ The dismissive bully
+ How to discuss red flags with your dating support team
LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX
+ Reviewing your definition of ‘sex’
+ What are your connective needs?
+ Your relationship with your body – your relationship with other people’s bodies
+ Feeling the truth of communicating as your changing sexual self
Closeness is the ultimately vulnerability
Are you ready to start enjoying dating for your wellbeing and growth and to feel more alive?
Then let’s talk…